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Personalising your special day

Photography, videography, music, flowers, confetti and all the other extras to make your special day.

Once you have given notice of marriage or civil partnership you will be provided with a pack which will include additional information to help you plan your ceremony.

We are happy to talk through any aspect of your ceremony, so please feel free to contact us. Everyone is different and we want to provide the perfect day for you.

Please remember that any music, readings or vows should be of a non-religious nature for your legal ceremony. However, there is plenty of choice and it is the readings, poems, special vows and music that make each ceremony unique.

There is something to suit everyone and all budgets, from a simple no fuss ceremony to a completely bespoke ceremony. Gone are the days when there was no choice and you could not personalise your ceremony.

Everyone has an idea of how they would like their special day to be, and here in Worcestershire we want to ensure you have a ceremony to remember and perfect just for you.

If, after you have made your booking, you need to change the date, time, or cancel your ceremony, please notify the Registration Service immediately in order that we can try and accommodate your requests. Registration staff will be able to advise you of the process.

We are here to give you guidance and support throughout and will do everything within our power to make your day happy and memorable.

Here are some essential items to consider

Photography and videography

Wedding photographs and videos are special mementoes, and we encourage you to capture the unforgettable moments of your special day. They are the lasting memories that you can keep forever and share with your friends and family. 

Before your ceremony begins the registrar will advise you regarding the taking of photographs and the use of video cameras to ensure that the dignity of the occasion is maintained whilst ensuring that you take home wonderful memories of your great occasion.

When you have given your Notice of Marriage or Civil Partnership you will receive a ceremony pack which includes a guidance note which we encourage couples to forward to the person you have chosen to take your photographs or video. This will make them aware of the boundaries within which we have to work. If you do have any special requests please make a note of these on your checklist.

Please see Photographer / Videographer Guidance notes (PDF)

Music

If you have chosen music as part of your ceremony please note that, by law, music with a religious context cannot be used in a civil ceremony. If you need inspiration, we have a selection that you can choose from in our registration ceremony suites, both classical and modern genres.

Please check with your chosen venue as to the music facilities they have in order to ensure that what you provide is compatible. For ceremonies taking place in Registration Suites our staff will advise the format we will require.

If you would like live music, a choir, singers or your guests to join you in song, this is possible but only in Approved Venues and not the Registration Suites.

We would need to know what music or lyrics are intended and how and who will be performing. 

For Bespoke Worcestershire ceremonies, religious content is permissible, as a Celebration ceremony does not form part of the legal process.

Confetti

Traditionally confetti is said to bestow prosperity on the newly joined couple. It is a lovely way to celebrate. 

Please feel free to use it outside at any of our Registration Offices, but do help us look after the environment by using biodegradable confetti or petals.

Approved Venues will have their own arrangements and should be contacted directly for details. 

Confetti is available to purchase in all our Registration Offices.

Lighting and candles

We are often asked for subdued lighting or candlelight at ceremonies. Unfortunately, we are unable to have naked flames within our Registration Offices. 

Approved Venues will have their own arrangements and should be contacted directly for details. 

Please be aware that the registrars attending will need to have a clear, well-lit area whilst conducting and completing the legal documentation.

Please note that naked flames will not be allowed on the table that is used by the Registrar. If you require further information, please contact us.

Floral arrangements

All our Registration Office Ceremony Suites have silk floral arrangements in neutral colours.

You are welcome to provide your own flowers or floral arrangements, especially if you want them to fit into a particular colour scheme. Please note these will need to be removed following the ceremony.

Floral arrangements in Approved Venues will need to be discussed with the Venue.

Decorations

We are unable to permit any other decoration for example seat covers, banner in the Registration Ceremony Suites.

For decorations in Approved Venues couples will need to liaise with the Venue.

Please be aware that any decorations must be of non-religious or cultural nature.

Themed celebrations

If you have chosen a theme for your ceremony etc, please talk to us and we will do our utmost to fit in with your wishes. Our

Registrars have been known to enter into the spirit of a themed celebration. We have been asked to wear specific colours, a dinosaur hat, a cloak in keeping with a medieval theme, dress-up in Country and Western clothes and even Star Wars items!

We will always do our best to please, including a DC Comics theme where we had the lovely compliment - “We were so happy that the Registrar was prepared to be our Superhero”. However, please discuss your requirements well in advance.

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General enquires

For further information on all of our Registration ceremony suites:

Booking and availability: 

Enquiry form

Email: registeroffice@worcestershire.gov.uk

Telephone: 01905 768181

 

 

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