Informal Care
Sometimes a child is unable to live with their birth
parent(s) because they may be at risk of harm, they have been
“abandoned” by their birth parent(s) or their birth parent(s) are
prevented from caring for them for any reason.
It may be that the parent can arrange for a friend or relative
to look after the child to help them over a difficult patch.
A child can stay with someone known to them, that is a relative
or friend, for up to 28 days on an informal arrangement between the
parent(s) and carers.
A close relative (grandparent, aunt or uncle, brother or sister)
can look after a child informally for a longer period, but if the
carer is not a close relative either the arrangement will
become Private Fostering or the child will
become 'looked after' by the local authority.
Children’s Services will always help to support an arrangement
for the child or young person to live informally with a relative or
friend, if possible, in this situation.
If a child living with a relative or friend is assessed as being
“in need” then the child and the carer will be able to ask for the
same support from Children’s Services available to a birth
parent.
Sometimes, Children’s Services may only need to be involved in
helping a family sort out such arrangements and no other support
may be needed. Providing the child is safe, and no ongoing
needs are identified, parents will continue to be legally
responsible for supporting their child in these situations.
Sometimes Children’s Services may assess with the parents, child
or carer, that some extra support is needed to enable a child to be
cared for by a relative or friend when they are unable to be cared
for by a birth parent, especially when this prevents a child from
needing to be looked after. Providing there is no reason for
Children’s Services to share Parental Responsibility, parents
continue to be legally responsible for supporting their child in
these situations. The support from Children’s Services is in
addition to that from parents and any state benefits available.
This page was last reviewed 4 October 2011 at 12:21.
The page is next due for review 1 April 2013.